Cording is a form of psychic bond that binds two people together emotionally. Most cases of cording are accidental. Some are natural, and even helpful on occasion (when they happen with love and mutual consent). Most commonly, however, they are a symptom of a power struggle that can manifest as a dysfunctional or abusive relationship.
Clairvoyants can actually see these cords, and depending on their appearance, can tell two people a great deal about the relationship.
You don’t need to be clairvoyant to release cords. All you need to do is visualize yourself and the person you’ve been corded to, and imagine that there is a string of energy connecting you. Make note in your journal of the exact place it is attached on both people. When you are ready, send a pulse of loving energy through the cord, then release or unhook yourself from it, and let it go. Sometimes you will feel a “snapping” sensation. Affirm that you are ready to release this person, and that all energy coming from them should be returned to them, with love, and for the greater good of all concerned.
It is important to keep in mind that you cannot harm someone by releasing a cord – nor does it mean that you must end the relationship. You can only cause harm if you attempt to uncord others without their permission.
Fretful parents who have a child involved in a corded relationship have on occasion approached me for help in “uncording” their child. I give them the same advice that I believe most skeptical non-believers would, “Keep your nose out of it until you are asked for help!”
If you intervene without permission from at least one side, it will come back to haunt you. I recall one mother who did not listen to this advice. Her daughter is no longer speaking to her, and she’s become the object of harassment from her daughter’s former lover. I believe all she managed to do was move the cords from her daughter to herself. The bottom line is she violated a cardinal karmic law, she attempted to enforce her will over two others. She forgot that cords cannot form without consent, and they cannot be dissolved without consent. She ended up doing the very thing she despised in others. That’s not only hypocritical, it is plain wrong, regardless of one’s motives – and it’s dangerous.
If you can see a strong cord, but cannot tell your loved one about it in psychic terms, express your concern in more traditional ways. Tell them you are concerned that the other person is overwhelming or controlling them. Ask if you can pray for them. Visualization is a form of prayer. If they grant you permission to pray, ask for Divine blessing before you proceed (according to your faith), and affirm that what you do be in accordance with Divine Will or is to be implemented “…in the higher good of all concerned.”